http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Crossing_the_T
Theorists believed that the need to mess ram each other. It was misleading. When they tried to exercise use this tactic, it became clear that it is dangerous even for their own ships. Battle of Lissa was an accident, but because of another experience was not, then rammed announced the foundation of battle.
Only in the line of battle ships can be controlled. I would recommend you use two columns against an enemy column. Clamp it between the two squdrons.