Hey Bubblehead, posting in this thread instead of pvt message as you asked. So I did the things you mentioned, moved the install folder out of my main program files, made sure it wasn't read only, installed the LAA (4gig wouldn't work, invalid directory), yet still get a crash on start. I can tell it is enabled as the load screen changes to the TMO one. I'm adding a screenshot of my JSGME as you requested since these other things did not work.
I forgot to mention, I saw you had the update patch for TMO as well, so I was installing that mod/patch as well, including the EAX clang splash mod in there. However, there are two versions of that EAX mod, one in the original TMO and one in the new patch. I didn't know if I should enable both, and this is shown in the screenshot, I went with the newer one.
https://imgur.com/a/cQCOdut
Any help is much appreciated!