Dont know if this can help beginners like me, but here you have one mod soup, tested ( a lot ...
).
Generic Mod Enabler - v2.6.0.157
[D:\Silent Hunter 4 Wolves of the Pacific - TMO\MODS]
TriggerMaru_Overhaul_2
TMO_ Metric_SpeedChart_Nomo
TMO_Update_20_to_21
RSRDC_TMO_V502
RSRDC_V5xx_Patch1
TMO_Visuals_for_RSRDC
IJN_Radar_Fix_for_TMO2
Fixed_CD_sonar_RSRDC
Fixed Zero Bomb Load RSRDC
TBT filter green TMO 1.9 and Stock
MaxOptics IV for TMO_2
OPCFv1.3_TMO19_green
Longer_Ship_Wake_V1_TMO1.7
SCAF for RSRDC v502_2.0
sh4lighthousemod
Extra Allied naval bases for SH4 + UBM + TMO v1.7 (v1.0)
SH4 Authentic Flags Mod
Carotio_SH4_Big_Moon
Carotio_SH4-Seafloor2_256mb
Convoy Routes TMO+RSRD
TDW_Ship_Plane_Fire_Damage_v1_3_SH4
Webster's Smaller Rain for TMO
Splash_effect_DC_bombs_bullets_shells_1.0_for_TMO2
New periscope's tube
New_Large_Lifeboat
Carotio_SH4_TrukCoralHarbourCityLocations
TGT AOB TO PK FIX - TMO (Easy Aob)
TGT DIALS TO PK FIX - TMO (Easy Aob)
Antilag
Radar and TDC Training Missions v1.02
SS399 USS Seacat_BALAO HI-RES Weathered
Just load it and enjoy not having crash to desktop
